Douglas "Doug" Graves, Enfield, CT— With deep sorrow, we share the passing of Douglas "Doug" Graves, who passed away after a prolonged battle with illness. Doug, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend, is remembered for his immense love for his family and his unyielding determination to fight through life’s challenges.
Doug was diagnosed with throat and lung cancer in 2018, a shock to both him and his family, as he had never smoked. Over the years, his health declined further due to complications from his treatments, and he developed a lung condition called pneumonitis. Despite his battles with cancer and diabetes, Doug continued to show strength, always striving to be there for his loved ones.
Doug’s passing has left a profound void in the lives of his family, particularly his wife Elaine, with whom he shared a 47-year relationship, including 45 years of marriage. He also leaves behind children Stacy and Chris, daughter-in-law Kristyn, and grandchildren Deion, Trinity, Kyle, Camren, Mackenzie, Jordan, Riley, and great-grandson T.J. Doug’s family meant the world to him, and he was a proud grandfather who found great joy in spending time with his grandchildren.
Doug was well-known for his love of grilling and his frequent trips to Gloucester, MA, for lobsters. A long-time mechanic, Doug was also passionate about bowling and cornhole, often playing these games with friends and family. He took great pride in his meticulously maintained lawn, an often-overlooked detail that reflected his character. He worked selflessly on cars for family and friends, never asking for anything in return.
Despite his enduring health struggles, Doug fought until the end, never wanting to leave his beloved family. In recent months, Doug had been in and out of the hospital, but his condition continued to worsen, and he passed away with his loved ones by his side.
A fundraiser has been organized to support the family with the final expenses, as Doug had no life insurance and had already used his 401k to manage prior costs. The community’s generosity has already raised $320 in donations, but more support is needed.
As shared by his close friend, Debbie Ashworth, “Doug fought with everything he had. He did not want to leave his wife, kids, or grandkids. It is with such heartbreak we come to you asking for help during this difficult time.”
The community has rallied around Doug’s family, with many offering heartfelt prayers and condolences. Jennifer Sauve’ posted, "So sorry to hear this. Prayers to Elaine and family." Janet Robinson Cavanaugh expressed, "Oh no. I’m so very sorry."
Doug’s passing has left a significant mark on all who knew him, and his family will forever cherish the memories and love he shared.
We are deeply saddened by the loss of Douglas "Doug" Graves. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends during this difficult time.
Short Summary of Douglas "Doug" Graves
| Aspect | Details |
|---|---|
| Name | Douglas "Doug" Graves |
| Date of Passing | Recently |
| Fundraiser Created By | Debra Ashworth |
| Goal Amount | Not specified |
| Amount Raised | $320 |
| Location | Enfield, CT |
| Purpose | Funeral expenses and support for family |
Let us all keep Doug and his family in our thoughts and prayers.
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